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Tuesday, September 9, 2008

The Cosmic Game Of Life Part 2


Here are the basic rules to The Cosmic Game Of Life. For those of you who have not read The Cosmic Game of Life Part 1 just click on the link; it is a short read. For those of you who have here are the basic rules to the game.

RULES OF THE COSMIC GAME OF LIFE

1. This is just a game.

THIS IS JUST A GAME! When playing this game, the most important rule we need to remember is that this is just a game .

2. Don't get attached to one particular outcome. Remain open to all that there is...

Do not become attached to one particular outcome but remain open all possibilities. It is our attachment to a particular outcome that causes us a great deal of suffering. Especially, if things do not turn out the way we want them too. But when we allow ourselves to remain open to all possibilities our world becomes infinite!

3. Speak with integrity- say only what you mean and do what you say you are going to do.

Being in integrity with oneself is more than just being impeccable with your word or adhering to moral and ethical principles. It is about living your life from a place of authenticity. Please read post "My thoughts on Integrity" for deep explanation of integrity.

4. Be truly present for another as you would truly want them to be present with you.

To truly listen requires us to listen without formulating our next move. Because when are formulating a rebuttal we are not truly listening. Listen requires our full attention as so we do not miss all the nuances that are available in our communication.


5. Be accountable for your actions.

Accountability is the state of being accountable, liable, or answerable. When we own our own actions we can move powerfully through life. But when discard our actions we become immobilized.

6. Recognize that all of your challenges in life that you are presented with are opportunities for growth and development.

There is a tendency for us to look at challenges as failure, hardship or misfortunes. This is truly not the case. Instead life challenges are opportunities for us to arise to the occasion and work through our emotions that limit our thinking and actions. When we are able to master these challenges than we will be able to incorporate what we have learned into our lives. There are two responses we can have to challenges: we can be open to them or we can resist our opportunity to grow and whichever one you choose will determine the size of the challenge and the degree of the conflict/struggle you will experience.


7. Forgive mistakes and transgression.

By holding on to transgression and/or mistakes we take ourselves out of the game. When take ourselves out of the game we close ourselves off to the infinite possibilities that exist around us.


8. Work through all situation in a harmonious way.

As we play this game, work through all situations in a harmonious way. As different situations present themselves we need to approach them from a harmonious place; a place of center. What I mean by center is being open to all the possibilities without any preconceived notions about how something should be.

What I have notices is when we are not coming from a place of harmony we enter into a death match between the object or person who we feel is in the way of us achieving our goal(s). We will defend ourselves to the very end at all cost.

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These rules will require continuous practice before they will become second nature.

17 comments:

Debbie September 10, 2008 6:09 PM  

I love what you have written here. This is a marvelous blog!

Jude September 10, 2008 7:42 PM  

The problem in this game of life is that if we preceive attack then we will attack, but we can always choice to perceive it in a different way and then we can turn it into love, we do have a choice.

neferiti September 10, 2008 8:10 PM  

Debbie, thank you for the marvelous comment.

neferiti September 10, 2008 8:19 PM  

Jude,

Tis true!

Perception and our emotional attachments have the power to build or destroy the human race! It is up to us to choose wisely.

LITeacher September 10, 2008 9:00 PM  

Hi,
I'll be back to read more I just wanted to let you know that the videos are working again. Thanks, I don't know what happened.

anmari September 11, 2008 1:55 AM  

Hi
I like this most.." Forgive mistakes and transgression."

very true...coz when you don't know how to forgive, it's like creating a wall around you.thus,it limits your space for improvement and possibilities.

les September 11, 2008 11:59 AM  

I believe our mistakes and the challenges we make in life can make us or break us. I try to never look back and regret my choices because they made me the the person I am today. I learned many things the hard way, and at times have been slow to forgive, but I know from experience that hanging on to a grudge only makes your life miserable and bitter.

*lynne* September 11, 2008 10:49 PM  

harrumph if only I'd gotten a hold of something like this back when I was a corporate drone, it might have helped my colleagues not behave in such a way that ultimately had me resigning in order to keep my mental health intact :p

Lotus from Asia September 12, 2008 1:13 AM  

Came back for the next round. We always act like a mirror to the other person, you smile I smile. It cannot be you don smile and I smile..Human, we have lots to learn. Give me permission to use some of the headings to text my feel on my blog. No, not copying.
I agree with all, indeed a wonderful blog.
Cheers

neferiti September 12, 2008 5:04 PM  

Lotus-

Thank you Lotus a complement from you means a lot. I would consider it an honor if you want to blog about my topics. All that I request is that you give credit where credit is due and link the headers back to my page so that we can have a dialog between the two blogs. Again thank you for stopping by and supporting me on my blog.

Lynne-

Thank you for the complement. We all need to take care of our mental health and it truly saddens me when we lose our sense of humanity. Thank you for stopping by.

Les-

Yes this is very true. Holding on to grudges also has a way of taking us out of relating to others and it takes more energy to hold a grudge than to be friends. Thank you for stopping by.

Nmari-

YES it does limit our space for improvement and possibilities!!
Thank you for stopping by.

LITeacher-

Thank you for the update.

Marlaine September 12, 2008 5:24 PM  

As a lifetime student of the game of life, I recognize many of your thoughts from paths I've studied. I like the way you've simplified it and made it easy to understand.

Angel September 13, 2008 10:27 AM  

This is my first visit to your blog, and it is wonderful. I will definitely be returning!

Take care:)

SandyCarlson September 13, 2008 5:50 PM  

Thanks for that, Neferiti. These are invaluable words of wisdom.

Lotus from Asia September 15, 2008 4:50 PM  

Sure, will do. If I use the topic here, I will link it back to you, my pleasure to do so. I hv very little blog link to 'Westerner' blogs and I hope to find some of substance and yet not such 'heavy'stuff. I like yours ..and I hope I find more that interest me...thanks for sharing..and I will come back to read.

Ibne Adam September 17, 2008 3:51 AM  

A really nice article. The elements of cosmics game of life are also principles of success in life.

Regards
Adam

Pushhyarag September 17, 2008 11:42 PM  

Hi,

I'm coming via the Entrecard exchange. I note instantly that the site & topics will interest me thoroughly. In fact, I notice a significant reflection of Indian ethos in your posts. I am adding you to the Blogs I Follow List right way so I can keep coming back. I do occasional posts at my site http://evoveever.blogspot.com. You may check out & leave a feedback. Thanks

neferiti September 28, 2008 7:51 AM  

Hi Pushhyarag,

Yes my writing is laced with ethos from the Indian belief system along with other practices. Thank you for visiting my blog. Look forward to hearing from you again.

Hi Marlaine,

Thank you for your complement and stopping by my blog.

Angel,

Thank you for stopping by. I too find your blog intriguing.

Sandy,

Thank you for stopping by.

Lotus,
I always enjoy reading your responses and your blog.

Adam,

Thank you for stopping by. Yes, The Cosmic Game have the same principle for success in life.

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